Question From A Reader:
“I’ve fallen in love with a close friend of mine. But because we’ve been friends for so long, I’m scared to confess my feelings to her. I’m worried that if I tell her she won’t want to be friends with me and will end the friendship. Not having her in my life would be unbearable. This is really stressing me out. Please advise me on how to go about it.”
- M from Kentucky
My Comments
If you were a Miss, instead of a Mr., I’d buy the whole “I’ve developed feelings for a close friend.”
I'm willing to bet you've f-ed her hundreds of times in your mind and you've done it since the moment you met her.
You wanted to make a move but kept chickening out. You thought, It doesn’t feel like the right time yet, and kept putting it off - again and again.
Each time you wussed out, it made the next time a little more nerve-racking.
Now it feels almost impossible to cross over the invisible “friends-only” barrier.
Here's the honest-to-God, brutal truth:
If she's not sexually attracted to you and you confess your feelings for her, things will get awkard - fast.
She'll either avoid you completely. Or act weird around you. Or tell you, "We are so close, I wouldn't want it to ruin our friendship.
And this brings up an important point:
You can't be too good at getting along with, make friends with, or connecting with women. A strong connection or friendship with a woman, NEVER cancels out sexual attraction.
When a woman says, "I wouldn't want it to ruin our friendship," she's tactfully telling you: I feel no sexual attraction for you, buddy.
So how do you tell a woman you like her without risking rejection?
I'll do better than that. I'm going to give you three simple steps for letting a woman know that you like her without risking rejection.
And here's the best. Let's suppose she isn't attracted to you at all. Do these three steps exactly as I instruct and there's a high probability she'll feel intense sexual arousal for you.
3 Easy Steps To Telling A Girl You Like Her Without Risking Rejection
Step One: Flirt With Her
Flirting is leading a woman to believe that sexual intimacy is possible, while preventing that possibility from becoming a certainty.
Flirting builds sexual tension. Flirting makes women attracted to you. Flirting has a Push-Pull structure.
The Pull dangles the bait and the Push takes it away, compelling her to chase after it.
You may have heard that women decide within the first 30 seconds if they’re going to sleep with a guy. The isn't true.
Here's what is...
Women decide within the first 30 seconds if they’re NOT going to sleep with a man.
If the woman doesn't care for your looks, personality, clothing... whatever, you're out of luck.
Unless...
You flirt with her and use Push-Pull.
When you flirt with her, something magical happens...
It changes the frame from the woman deciding if she’s going to sleep with you to her – sometimes obsessively – worrying about you wanting to sleep with her.
Once you’ve flipped this switch in her mind, it’s time for you to express your feelings for her.
Step Two: Find Something You Like About Her That Goes Beyond Her Physical Appearance
Women love sex and many are open to having a one-night-stand.
But there’s one last hurdle to get past…
Before most women will spread their legs for a man, they need to know that he likes them beyond their beauty or willingness to satisfy his every sexual whim.
You need to find things you genuinely like about a woman.
You can probe for these things by using questions that make women qualify (or prove) themselves to you.
Here are some examples:
What’s the most adventurous thing you’ve done in the last year?
Where’s the last place you travelled to?
What’s the last book you’ve read?
Are you a good cook?
Once she gives you a reason to like her beyond her physical beauty, you're ready for step three.
Step Three: Compliment Her In A Way That Makes Her Beg For More...
First you're going to compliment her on that thing you like about her not related to her physical appearance. Then you're going to compliment her on her physical appearance in way that keeps her begging for more.
Here's what to do...
If a girl demonstrates that she’s well-travelled and adventurous, you could say, “I like that you’re well-travelled and adventurous. And you make an expression that’s so cute but I don’t want to tell you what it is because you’ll stop doing it.”
She’ll literally beg you to tell her. Not to mention, it will build even more sexual tension.
Instead of worrying that you're using her for sex, she'll feel like she's earned your approval and affection.
A harsh dose of reality: If flirting, push-pull, building sexual tension, and physically escalating are skills you lack, you’ll find yourself in “friend-zone” with the women you want over and over again.
If you want the girls most men don’t have a snowballs chance with, you need get these skills down pat.
Inside Real World Seduction 2.0 you’ll develop blackbelt level skills at flirting, building sexual tension,push-pull, and physically escalating – giving you the power and choice with the women you desire.
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Imagine a woman attractive enough to make most men empty their wallets.
Yet after men take her out for a bankrupting night on the town, all they receive is a "thank you for dinner" and a kiss on the cheek.
What if, unlike all the other chumps, you could fill her with attraction so strong, she'd literally beg you for sex even though you didn't spend a single dime on her?
What if the sexual tension you sparked in her was so power, your looks, social status, and age didn't matter?
What would that be like?
That's exactly what I'm going to teach you how to do inside Real World Seduction 2.0.
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Your Dating Coach,
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